Now Tiger’s apology went just as expected. “I’m sorry, I’m sorry, I made you all look bad because I couldn’t keep my hoes in check” blah blah blah. But what I thought was interestingly funny, was his two (2) full minute monologue on how graceful and gentle Elin is, and how she never hit him. That segment of the State of The Union Address was as believable as Rihanna’s singing talent. But I wonder if she was giving him a scouring look, like “I wish you would” with her American slightly German accent like “you betta don’t cuz I will cut you” But we all believe Tiger is a hardcore Gansta right?! And he would never let his wife beat him upside the head with his golf club. Noooo not Tiger Woods! lol

See this is EXACTLY why some people should take their Carebear Rainbow Bright asses and seddown. You got knocked THE fux out dude and it aint nobody fault but your own. *smh*

Learn how to duck next time.

Damnit… Just when I thought I was safe! Is this the growing trend now? But you know what?…….. I feel her gangsta ’cause with the amount of people sneezing and coughing into their hands and then touching the hand rail, I may follow suit. But as I think about it……..why IS my girl still touching the most infected part of the entire train. I take it you’re not a 140 on the IQ list huh sweetie? IDK……. *sigh*. Lord save me from the H1N1.

Also appearing at fashion week was fellow tv reality designer, Sheree Whitfield from the Real Housewives of Atlanta. Her Spring 2010 collection was definitely a step up from her viewing in May 09; however  She by Sheree continues to leave much desired. Her stitching lines did not appear smooth, and her collection was difficult to see an overall theme that brought the line together. Though she commented that the line was inspired by calli lillies, its possible that that dream didn’t come to fruition. There were a few standout pieces but notably the best looking piece in the collection was actually worn by none other than….. Sheree Whitfield.

Now looking at the collections side by side do you really have to be a designer to produce a line. My thoughts are yes, but look below and you be the judge.  My answers sum it up into one phrase:  Sheree pick it up…….your face.

Christian Siriano

 She By Sheree

But what bothers me most about this pandemic is whether I should really start to call it a pandemic. Is it really a crisis I should be concerned about, or is this worldwide propaganda? Could this be an international government “G20” agreed upon Kansas City Shuffle, or is this the beginning of Biblical Armageddon? I saw Damian on June 06, 2006 but he is only supposed to be approaching his 3^rd birthday. According to the Omen, the world isn’t supposed to go through the first plague until he is six, so we have three more years to go Swine Flu!

Here I digress. With the global economy falling into the dark pits of Hell, and this new disease developing into quarantine stage I look up to the sky and wait for the brimstone. I can’t imagine that this is all coincidence. Maybe there is some validity to the happenings around the planet Nibiru and the recycling of the world. But I will tell you this…. if the shyt hits the fan I hope Will Smith won’t take too long to come up with the miracle cure. Maybe I should be a bit preemptive and send him some Bob Marley tunes so he can find inspiration. And if I can’t stand behind Milla as she karate chops Zombies heads, into the tunnels of London I go looking for the masked swordsmen V.

Peace Love and Coconut Oil

Olivia Rose

Now outside of his overly exerted masculine presence trying to hide his secret of yearning for the same sex, this man’s increasingly long glances at the half naked male passerby’s gave him away like free ice on a hot summer’s day. Now there is nothing wrong with a bisexual man or a man that is curious about his sexuality; however, I question whether a man who is curious about his sexuality should be allowed to continue to date either sex without being honest about his desires, who he is, and who he likes.

It is my belief that everyone’s coming out process can be varying, but for everyone there is some sense of difficulty because their lifestyle is not considered the norm in terms of the master narrative. Essentially, society teaches us from young that boys are strong, girls are sweet and they are only allowed to date each other. So feelings of dating the same sex is obviously against the “norm” and can lead to an emotional weight that can be so heavy it can cripple its occupier and eventually lead to the destruction of all the relationships that person may have.

I have experienced that men who are trapped in their desires of who they want intimately can allow the weight of their desires to weigh on them so heavily that they sometimes become abusive, both emotionally and physically. Check back to RiRi 2Ways to get an understanding of a man with whom I had a first hand experience of how his desires can become abusive to others.

From the beginning of our relationship my suspicions of his desires were present. I waited for him to be honest with me, and probably that’s the cause of why I allowed his ridiculous behavior to continue. A part of me knew he was acting out because there was something he was battling within. But I didn’t mind so much because hey, he was everything I thought I wanted in a man so I allowed myself to be available and be there when I felt he wanted to “come clean” or “out” whichever the choice. But I felt sorry for him because his defense mechanism for life was exposing and oftentimes creating people’s shortcomings so no one would see his own insecurities; most importantly, his discomfort with his desire of being with a man. This was a “man’s man” the archetype of the strong sophisticated black man. For the Black Man, history has taken away his strength; thus, he must reclaim it by distancing himself from anything one would deem “weak”. Hence of course the homophobic antidotes were his way to ensure his manly hood. But the constant negative rants about every women being a slut or a whore, and his extremely hyper sexual behavior should have been tiny inklings to his true nature; that he was angry with himself because he desired men.

A man who is questioning his sexuality can also be dangerous because of his false sense of hope that he provides to his lovers that their respective relationships will continue. On both sides of the spectrum, if he is with a man or a woman he can be placed in a situation whereby his partners are under the assumption that they give him everything that he needs. Without taking an honest look into who he is and having conversations about where he is on his journey, he can destroy relationships due to unclear expectations. It has been my experience that bicurious men honestly don’t know if they want either of the partner’s they are involved with; but the damage is severe because the conversations are not happening because they have yet to come out to themselves.

Now although questioning one’s sexuality has become increasingly apparent in today’s society, with the remnants of the past still looming over gender roles, it is still an arduous task for those who involve themselves with sexually curious partners. But the owness remains with the bicurious or bisexual man. He has all the power to either engage or not for he is the one on the journey. But let me be clear,  I am not saying that in the closet bisexual or bicurious men should not date nor am I discouraging people from dating as I do find it a process for all people to find out what they like and what they don’t like. However, I do question whether people who have crucial self identity issues and have not made it clear to their partners,  should engage in relationships . What do you think?